the red dot reset
two singaporeans who left the script

What we gained, what we gave up, and how to start your own reset.

Weekly episodes from Kuala Lumpur on leaving Singapore, with our real numbers. And four honest workbooks for when you're ready to do your own reset, wherever you live.

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Where are you in your reset?

01

Thinking of leaving Singapore?

Start with the decision itself: renting out the HDB, selling the car, and moving with a cat.

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02

Singapore or Malaysia?

Cost of living, cars, healthcare and culture, compared with our real numbers.

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03

Feeling stuck where you are?

You don't have to move countries to reset. Start with a free five-minute check-in.

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the reset, in four steps

Four workbooks. One honest reset.

Each one is a 38-page guided workbook you can use with your own AI. Gradual, optional, and built so you never risk what you've worked for.

RECOVER when you are running on empty

"Breathe. You are allowed to be tired."

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RELEASE when the expectations are not yours

"Not every belief you carry belongs to you."

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REFLECT when you have lost track of who you are

"Before you can rebuild, you have to remember."

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REBUILD when you are ready but unsure where to start

"Now you build: slowly, honestly, your way."

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The Complete Reset All four workbooks, plus the Life Story Book prompt that turns your answers into your own story.
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The 27 questions we asked ourselves before we left.

The worksheet version of our 27 Questions episode. Answer them honestly, and you'll know which questions matter most to you.

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hello, we're jim and catheryn

We did everything right. Then we reset.

Two Singaporeans, married since 2019, running Best Marketing Agency together. We left Singapore in 2024, spent 15 months in Medan, Indonesia, and moved to Kuala Lumpur in July 2025 with our cat, Aurelia.

This is where we share what a reset really looks like, without pretending it's easy.

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